Well I will be 55 this April. I have been a widow for a year. I've had a terrible 2009 and praying for a much better 2010. I have several handicaps...Advanced degeneritive spinal diease w/ buldging disk and arthritis and bone spurs ( calcium deposits), fibomyalgia, PTS (past turmatic syndrom), and neuroapthy in my feet and legs. To top of it all I had a heart attack in Nov. which physically impared me a bit more and added more depression. Just when I think or know my weight is going down the next it's back up. When you DO NOT eat like a morbably obease people. I eat maybe one meal a day and somedays I have no appitite at all. Most of my weight is from meds I take. I know when it gets a bit warmer I'll start working out. Right now I feel like a old cold well waiting for spring to spring. I know I am boring. I just hope I find that special someone to make my life feel more complete, encouraged. warm hugs and gentel kisses and champane dreams

I would like to have to have someone who can love me unconditionally and help me deal with my problems and bring up my self-esteem. Here I am almost 55 and I am still a little shy until I get to know you a bit. I have been known to say just what is on my mind at times to so watch out . Also he has to be tall and hansom or short and hansom lol. Just kidding. But I want a gentelman who takes good care of hisself and doesn't mind helping me with some of my difficulties. I like a well manicured man and I hope has some of the same interest. I like reading my romance novels and crocheting at home or on my PC talking to friends. I have a lot of interest just haven't found the right guy who like the same. I would love to travel if I could, I like a very loving person, not not someone who is always hanging on you and slobbering all over you...YUCK!!!! I like to cuddle by a fireplace or have a home with a beautiful mountain veiw or a beautiful beach to see the sunset. I like a family man who enjoys his grandchildren as much as his children. Family always was great at the holidays. I can't stand long or walk far without some kind of help. So you would have to bear with me. I am 55 but I feel 105. Thank you for reading about me and my wishes. there might be more but I don't think they will let me write a novel lol. Bye for now Kathrine